If there's time…
My attention is repeatedly snagged by articles with titles like, Ten easy ways to jump-start your fitness, and How to live longer and healthier, and even, How to be your best self now. And although I do want to be my best self now, I try not to worry about how old I look because I … Read more
I turn out the hallway light before easing the bedroom doorknob to the right. Sometimes the hinges creak, but if I press down on the knob while slowly opening the door I can usually enter the room silently. The darkness of the bedroom is complete to my unadjusted eyes. Other areas of the house remain … Read more
Of course I am almost late. I read an article once that described people who have trouble transitioning from place to place. There is a name for this behavior. It is, appropriately enough, called a transitioning disorder. Apparently some people, like me, find more and more to do where they are as they get closer … Read more
When did people stop interacting with each other because they had different political opinions? I’m thinking of the response to the recent addition of Colin Kaepernick to the Nike ad campaign. I’m also thinking of the response to the response of the addition of Kaepernick. I checked on Google and discovered that Nike employs 73 … Read more
My kids are millennials. Their friends are millennials. And this morning I read a truly inspiring op-ed piece in the Dallas Morning News written by a millennial. I have been and remain so incredibly impressed by these young adults. They are smart, creative, industrious and have amazing work ethics. The world is both bigger and … Read more
Today I’m sharing one of my Great Aunt Esther’s favorite jokes in honor of the Jewish new year. First, let me offer a brief introduction to my aunt. She died over three decades ago. I clearly remember a conversation my mother had with her about finances during her final year. Esther was resistant to the … Read more
I went back to school before the birth of my first child. I remember waddling into the registrar’s office during my 7th month of pregnancy to finalize the paper work allowing me to sign up for classes. I continued my education for the next ten years. During that decade, I had two more children, remained … Read more
My youngest child is 25 years old. She lives in New York, holds down a responsible job, has friends and takes care of herself. She cooks healthy meals frequently incorporating the big package of spinach she keeps in her kitchen. She is an adult. Her sister is also gainfully employed in Los Angeles with a … Read more
My father and I sit companionably together on the low wall in front of a building on Madison Avenue. We people watch and chat, but even in my self-centered teenage brain I understand my dad needs this moment to rest his legs before facing the challenge of the subway ride home. It is 1972 and … Read more
I’m still struggling with this need to be an adult, which is totally bizarre since I am 62 years old and have obviously been an adult for a long time. I have some of it down pretty well. I can take care of other people. I know how to nurture. I’m naturally sympathetic. I’m even … Read more